There's a lot of talk on the Elden Ring forums about hackers mangling peoples' saves. They pop in and teleport the person underground, or into an DLC area (which means infinite loading if you don't own the DLC). Some will somehow cause every major boss to get killed off, so you won't get any rewards when you defeat them. If you haven't backed up your save, you're done. Start a new save.
Things weren't going well for me until I popped into a dungeon: the Stormfoot Catacombs. Got killed, then got killed just before getting my loot back. Arg. About 4000 runes gone - whatever they are for. A little underground area under a building in a swamp double-killed me, too. The first proper boss (found behind a one-way mist door) killed me pretty easily. I haven't died since, but I hardly had anything so I'm not going back for that loot.
I finally discovered the merchant that the game and been pointing me toward. I thought I would have to fight that big boss guy - but no, he just rides back and forth, waiting for me to get strong enough to kill him. That's going to be a pretty long time! I also found out that runes are money around here.
There are also soldiers wandering around. They're great! Better rewards than the giant bat things and WAY easier to kill. They're lucky to turn around before I finish them off! Those bat things are smart and sneak over the top of my shield to hurt me.
Still, I hadn't figured out how to level up yet. There's a "required" under my runes set at 750 or so which might be it, but I passed that up and there was no option to level up. What gives!? It's been two nights and I'm still at the same level I was. The guidance pointed me at another grace point, but the guidance from there points to a nasty looking place. I'm still the same level I was when I started and, though I have a nice shield, I'm barefoot! This can't be right.
So, I took a look in a guide. Oooooh, it seems I have to hang around that merchant overnight. Then I'll get a visitor who will clue me in on how to fraggin' level up. And give me a horse, too. And how was I supposed to know that!? Maybe those weird things the white mask guy said?
I probably would have gotten all sorts of hints about that if I had multiplayer turned on.
Once you get to the Gate Grace or whatever it's called, if you rest, a girl should visit you so you can level.
I also just started Elden Ring...well, picked up my 45 hour save. Managed to lose like 70k souls the other night, which stung a bit, but it's ok. I did finish Caelid and finally moved beyond the great lift into the next area. I've been kind of meandering through there, because I'm not too sure what should be doing or what I want to do.
Still playing more Civ 6 though and having a great time. Started a new game as Nubia, which put me on a relatively small continent (so far as I can tell) with Greece and two City-States. Now normally I like to play real friendly, trade, research, etcetera, but apparently, Greece gets real pissy if you start to gather more influence with City-States than they, so Perecles starts talking **** to me and generally just being a dick.
Then started our thousand year war, which I kicked off because I was tired of Perecles ****. I saw him running a Settler south towards my lands and I thought, "hell no", so I attacked and took his Settler to found my own city. The war lasted maybe 30 turns as I attacked Athens and tried to annihilate the Grecian people, Perecles making constant appeals for me to stop. Eventually, I ceased the war because Brussels, being on Greece's side was also attacking me and I couldn't fight a two front war. So I took a hefty 10 gold per for 50 turns sum from Greece to end the war...for now...
Of course, as soon as the payments ran out, I attacked Greece again. This time, was different. I was much more prepared. I had a larger army, I had massed on his border and I had become Suzerain with Brussels, so they were on my side now. Long story (war) short, I took over one of Greece's newest cities before finally agreeing to their appeal for peace, as long as they paid me and ceded that city to my full control.
It's been 70 turns or so since then and I've got Greece backed into a corner on the continent, with three little cities and I think I'm happy with that. Once they're done being pissed at me, I'm going to see if I can make friends of them and otherwise keep them cowtowed while I pursue other goals.
So yeah, Civ 6 is fun.