In terms of being a clan leader, one expects someone both kind yet strict. Rules must be set, but must always be open to challenge. When it comes to addressing the needs of a whole (like a clan) you must harken to hearing the ideas of the masses, lest it become a dictatorship.
That doesn’t mean we don’t care about them; a true leader should be willing to follow just as he/she is willing to lead.
Empathy is key when it comes to “conquering” entire plots of land. Allies prove far more valuable assets than slaves.
Overall, I would lead as though I were a father; concerned for the well being of the unit whilst making a way to solidify a self sufficient and working clan~