Missed this thread.
It does bother me, and I do, occasionally, stop playing games, or hopefully avoid them to begin with, based on how grim they are.
Sometimes it's the atmosphere, aesthetics and people (rather than story) that can get to me. I don't really enjoy most Warhammer 40k stuff because of the "grim dark" world, and some of that is aesthetics, but also everyone is bat-$hit crazy. Meanwhile Vermintide 2 was thoroughly enjoyable to me despite the end-of-the-world setting. Leaving Warhammer, Disco Elysium was dirty and had, IMO, the worst main character I'd ever come across--a lazy, horny drunkard on the verge of death and insanity due to his own life choices, and I just couldn't get into it.
This is complex for me, but sometimes it depends upon what I expect the outcome to be. For instance,
@Frindis mentions Resident Evil 7, which for him is both grim and scary, but for me it isn't grim at all because I know that in Resident Evil games the hero always overcomes (RE8 would have an asterisk beside it).
Sometimes it depends on how seriously I take the story. I knew the story and setting of The Kindemen Remedy was probably going to be as bleak as possible, but I still played the demo because for some reason I found it so dark that it was amusing.
One perhaps odd thing that bothers me is insanity, perhaps because I've held on by a thread my entire life,
🤣 and also because I worked for a time in a mental institution before the development of newer antipsychotic drugs and was basically scarred for life. The presence of insanity, by itself, doesn't stop me from playing a game, though.
Great topic
@Brian Boru !